When we think of true love, we think of Soul Mates and Twin Flames. In esoteric traditions it is said that the supernal human was divided into man and woman, thus every human being has a perfect spiritual counterpart, that he or she is destined to meet and unite with at some point in the transmigration of the soul. However it is also said that for the soul mates to be able to meet and unite with one another in this world, the soul-being of both partners must have a sufficient degree of evolution, and have done all the necessary spiritual work on the soul before they are ready to meet and restore their unity.
“Essentially, the soul-being must evolve to a higher grade and be near to the attainment of self-realization in order to meet its destined partner … Soul mates may meet in an incarnation, but not be able to unite because the necessary conditions are not present. Likewise, souls destined for one another may meet and unite, but not accomplish the mission of the Neshamah (Supernal soul, divine nature) and therefore not perfect their union. After all, a true mystical union must bear good fruit and the two who become one must fulfill and complete one another … When soul mates meet and unite, however, it is a powerful and wonderful event and the blessing of their union extends light and life to others. Soul mates uplift humanity and the world… When speaking of soul mates, my teacher would always say,’You should not expect to meet your soul mate in this life, neither should you doubt that you will, but in all your relationships you should seek to create the conditions necessary for this holy union – for one never knows when it shall come to pass. You must have a good heart and clear conscience, and cultivate compassion and love. All our relations prepare us to meet our beloved, whom the Beloved has ordained for us at the outset of creation…’
It teaches us that one is to love one’s partner as oneself and seek out a relationships that cultivate his or her humanity and that serve to facilitate conscious spiritual evolution. Whether one is with one’s soul mate or in exchange of sparks with another soul, the foundation of all intimate personal relationships is to be the same. … This also reflects the emphasis upon the development of a coequality of men and women. While a great imbalance exists between men and women, the meeting and union of soul mates can remain a relatively rare and exceptional phenomenon. True manhood cannot exist apart from true womanhood …” – Tau Malachi
Could there be anymore beautiful advise for those seeking to unite with their of soul mates?